For the ladies....

Here's an excerpt from an interesting article in the recent High Plains Reader:

"A woman’s perception of self-worth is validated outside of her self by others. And this affects her perception of her own value as a human being.

Women compete indirectly with other women because they have not learned how to recognize and control their internal needs, feelings and goals, and transform them into physical, tangible realities. Once women learn that they cannot control or live vicariously through their children or the man in their life, they will stop hating each other and focus on their individual unique gifts, talents and assets.

Ladies, here are some points to ponder:

1. You can never stop a man from looking at or admiring another woman’s beauty. Do you really feel that another woman is more valuable as human being simply because of her physical appearance? You are more than your physical body. What talents, gifts or skills do you have to contribute to society?

2. You cannot control what other people think of you.

3. You can never compete with anyone but yourself.

4. The only person who you can control is yourself, period.

5. Whatever you seek in other people, develop in yourself. You don’t need to marry a doctor. Become a doctor.

6. You are the most important person in the world who must believe, acknowledge and recognize your own authentic and unique beauty. Why should anyone love and respect you more than you love and respect yourself?"

Read the entire article here: Femolution: Stop the Hating